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EXPLANATION OF TERMS Bondage refers to the act of restricting the movement of a person. Bondage can be physical or symbolic and may involve many different methods. Primitive cultures used bondage on stolen brides to prevent their escape. This form of restraint eventually evolved into symbolic bindings around the waist, legs, and wrists and according to some, the finger. The tradition of carrying the bride across the threshold also comes from this custom. There was a strange twist to sex and bondage during the 19th Century when parents were encouraged to bind the hands of their sons behind their backs to prevent them from masturbating. Adult men were not exempt and were often expected to have the same thing done to them Today television programs are full of abduction and bondage scenes. Children play cowboys and Indians using rope bondage. And in 1989 over 40% of patients in American nursing homes were put into restraints. Regardless of the popularity of bondage, it is not socially acceptable for adults to utilize it for sex play. The benefits individuals receive from bondage vary. Simple solitary bondage is like meditation for many practitioners. The brain seems to release more alpha waves, causing a floating or hypnotic state similar to when one drives on a highway late at night. Other people prefer to pull against the restraints, building a rush of adrenalin and euphoria. Men who are much stronger than their partner, but still want a passionate reciprocal exchange of physical power, benefit from partial bondage. This handicaps the man so that the woman appears to have equivalent or superior physical strength. Some build up immense confidence and self esteem by being able to work their way loose from the restraints. Many find thatbondage relieves then of always having to sexually perform. This allows them to relax and not feel guilty about enjoying the sensations their partner is creating. Bondage often serves as simple support. Secure and comfortable bondage allows the person acting as the victim, to relax completely, without worrying about balance or other practical distractions. Imaginative sexual positions may move from ridiculously awkward to fun with such support. A major effect of bondage, when used during sex, is the release of normal inhibitions. A prisoner or victim does not feel as personally responsible when obeying commands, especially ones they have fantasized about but didn't have the courage to try. The person performing the bondage experiences a similar release of inhibition due to the tremendous increase in feelings of personal power. However, sexual etiquette requires for the dominating partner not to use the situation to exclusively fulfil their own fantasies, particularly ones that their partner, namely the victim, doesn't find arousing. Bondage scenes are negotiated ahead of time which enables both people to determine what type of scene they want to act out and what paraphernalia might be needed. A safe word guarantees that sexual limits of the partner playing the victim will be expanded but not violated. The safe word is also a command to end the game, whether it is because the victim feels discomfort, boredom or their limit has been reached. Regardless of why the safe word was used, it is the responsibility of the perpetrator to get them out of bondage within a few seconds. Bondage also creates trust and appreciation for the perpetrator. Those bound are for the first time not able to reciprocate acts of affection and stimulation received from the partner. They become fully aware of the role of their partner plays in expressing affection and controlling sexual arousal. Many victims become extremely grateful and submissive upon finally being released. Bondage , like other sex games, will generally not produce an erotic effect unless one is sexually attracted to their partner or has an overpowering lust for bondage, in which case the partner is of lesser importance. In addition, most safety conscious people do not play with people they don't know. Bondage, unlike other types of sex, may require a long period of time, up ton 48 hours. This necessitates the partner being diverse and having the physical and mental stamina required to keep the game intense, focused and progressive. The perpetrator is often more exhausted than the victim at the end of the bondage session. CAUTION: Bondage, like mountain climbing, skydiving, body building and car racing can be dangerous if the proper precautions are not taken. People who practice bondage read about the safety of new equipment or positions they can use on their partners. Positions are selected according to the length of time in which the partners have to play. Many positions seen in magazines are extremely uncomfortable and would not work for more than a few minutes. Pulling a person's arm upward while they are bound behind their back (strapado torture position) can easily dislocate a shoulder. A person is never left unattended while bound. Furthermore, the person who is bound is constantly monitored for breathing, circulation, skin tone and temperature of the fingers and toes. Nothing is put near the neck except properly fitted collars. Ropes, blindfolds, hoods, or other restraints can slip out of their original position and cause suffocation. The restrictive cuffs or ropes match on each side of the body in order to produce the proper sensations. Those learning bondage add additional paraphernalia slowly, avoiding gags, latex hoods, impaling, lacing and crucifixion. The following are specific examples of common bondage play. Spreader BarsSpreader bars are used in conjunction with leather cuffs and sometimes chains. They are designed to alleviate the need of anchoring a person to a chair or bed. A leg or knee spreader also keeps the victim from closing their legs to protect or hide their genitals. This type of vulnerability is particularly exciting for women who enjoy being exhibited. Spreader bars, as opposed to tying someone to the bed posts, allow the legs to be raised into different positions and for the person to easily be flipped over on their stomach. Bondage CageCages are used to imprison partners without the need of additional restraints. Cages are made to resemble wire chicken coops, coffins or wooden boxes. The type of cage one selects is determined by the feelings one wants to produce. If the fantasy involves an interrogation of a prisoner, bars are often used. If the slave is impersonating a pet, the chicken wire pen or kennel sets the proper mood. Necrophilia's and vampires prefer coffins. Wooden boxes with holes for ventilation are versatile in most cases and claustrophiles (people who are aroused by being trapped in small areas) enjoy being placed in them. Cages may or may not be large enough to permit the slave to stand or lay fully stretched out. The size of the cage determines how long a person is left inside. Cages are used as beds, for punishment, or during a recess in S/M play. Some perpetrators have anchored male prisoners wearing Prince Albert penis rings (metal rings that pierces the urethra and exits near the fraenulum) to the cage bars by wrapping his penis around a bar and fastening the Prince Albert to a cock ring at the base end of his penis. People practicing long term bondage that need to leave the house for a couple of hours often leave their partner in a cage. This is considered safe; on the assumption that the chances of the house catching fire and the perpetrator getting into a car accident are accident slim. Bondage ChainsChains are used for suspension or attaching one restraint to another. They are also used for ornamentation or to connect various ring piercings on the body. Chains, because they rattle and feel cool, add tactile and auditory sensations to the bondage scene. Chains are preferred by some for suspension because they are heavy duty and various items can be hung from the links. A 3" or 4" panic snap is added to provide for immediate release. The disadvantage to using chains is their weight and bulk if people take sex toys with them on a trip. Bondage CollarsCollars can are worn by slaves and by the perpetrators. They act as a visible and physical reminder of their submissive state. The collar is often black leather with a buckle and some include chrome studs as decoration. It is either worn alone or with a leash attached to a 'D' ring. Others use an ordinary necklace with some type of charm or emblem to signify their commitment. Pet slaves sometimes have personalized dog tags attached to their collar. Wrist restraints Wrist restraints are occasionally attached by a chain to the "D" ring with the arms in front of the body or to the sides. This is dangerous if done from the back because it can cause self-strangulation. CrucifixionCrucifixion consists of suspending a person by the wrists and ankles from a stake. It was originally done by Phoenicians, Assyrians, Egyptians, Persians and Romans as a method of execution. Nailing the wrists and feet usually meant a fast death from blood loss while using ropes meant that the person would live several hours before suffocating. Death could take several days if their weight was supported by something. The Carthaginians used crucifixion as a form as a form of ritual sacrifice. Malcus, in order to ensure himself victory in battle, dressed his son, had a crown placed on his head and then crucified him as a sacrifice to the god Baal. Once dead, the victim was usually burned with the cross. The Romans developed four more types of crucifixes: the Y, X, T and H. The latter involved hanging a person horizontally by one leg and one arm. Leather cuffs are preferred for most, but people also wrap their ankles and wrists with ropes using Ace bandages to give some protection underneath the binding. The roped binding is to be secure but not too tight. A few people find crucifixion games arousing and powerful because of its religious association with pain and sacrifice. CAUTION: There is a danger that setting the restraints too loosely may cause permanent crushed nerve damage. Constant monitoring of the extremities for circulation is done by all who play with restraints. Some choose to have an orgasm during suspension. However, the body tolerates more pain before orgasm than afterward and they risk experiencing increased pain. Positions that require one's arm to be separate and support their weight will put stress on the lungs and can cause suffocation. The least painful position is one where both hands are hung together above the head and the ankles are spread but still have support. This can be tolerated by some for as long as 10-15 minutes, depending on the person, their weight, and the type of bondage. CuffsLeather cuffs are 2-3" wide leather strips that fit around the wrists or ankles. They have buckles, latches or padlocks and may be lined with fur for comfort. Cuffs are simpler to use, more restrictive than rope, and can be removed faster. Chains, leather straps, or spreader bars are sometimes used to attach cuffs to each other. EncasementEncasement is a type of bondage that also involves sensory deprivation. The Sadhus of India used this method as one way of preventing orgasms while trying to achieve an altered state of consciousness. It is also used as a type of chastity device. Encasements of heads were used in the form of hideous helmets or metal masks during the middle Ages as a form of humiliation. This type of torture was portrayed in the movie "Man in the Iron Mask" and if this had a similar effect on the head as it does the penis, we can only imagine the psychological torment it could cause. A man usually encases his penis in a metal ball or other material that will not come into constant contact with the penis. Both of these have a small hole for the urine to pass. Encasements make it impossible for the person to achieve an orgasm and there is no sensation in the penis while encased. However, after several days have passed and the ball is removed the penis becomes extremely sensitive to touch. GagsGags are used to render a person speechless, which has a great psychological impact. Some victims prefer gags because they muffle their screams. Those using gags establish an alternative signal to replace the safe word. Some have their partner hold a marble and drop it if they want the game to end. There are many types of gags. They include bridles, ball gags, mouth covers, muzzles, adhesive tape, stuffers, and dildos and bar gags. Ball gags are effective and safe as long as they are anchored or strung onto a strap that is wide enough to be comfortable. Penis or dildo gags are available with the penis mounted on the inside of the mouth, the outside or both. Penis gags are used for humiliation, sex, and punishment and teasing. People strap on the gag with the dildo that protrudes outward and then mount it. They also have the option of sitting on the partner's gag and sucking on their genitals. Head harnesses are available in Japan with a high-heel shoe attached to the front so that the toe penetrates the mouth.
Muzzles or head harnesses are used by many because they are comfortable, generally anchor the jaw, permit breathing and do not chafe the lips. The person is not rendered completely speechless but the sound is muffled. CAUTION: There is a risk of the person not being able to breathe adequately through their nose, gagging on saliva, damaging their teeth on hard objects put in their mouth, swallowing or choking on vomit or stuffings that can be bitten off or have come loose from the mouthpiece, or the mouth becoming uncomfortably dry. Many only use gags for two minutes at a time. HandcuffsHandcuffs are adjustable and when applied correctly it is impossible for the victim to escape. They are easy to apply and are a convenient form of restraint for those wanting to move their partner to another location. Generally mitts, socks or boots are used to protect against the discomfort caused by the metal pressing against the skin. Good quality handcuffs with built-in safety locks that keep them from tightening after being locked are used in the S &M community. Those who have more than one set usually have them all keyed the same and keep extra keys readily available during bondage play as a safety precaution. Handcuffs are applied so that the key hole faces away from the body, making them more accessible and easier to remove. CAUTION: For safety, handcuffs are carried closed. This guarantees that the key is available before play begins and padding (gloves or Ace bandage) is used on the wrists to protect them from abrasion. Body harnesses are used for decorative attire, suspension and to anchor onto other restraints. Decorative harnesses are made of rope in bondage scenes and of leather costumes. Harnesses used most for suspension are parachute harnesses which are available for purchase in many Army Navy surplus stores. HoodsHoods are used to depersonalize a partner. This anonymity gives the dominator more power, both parties fewer inhibitions and focuses the victim's sensations entirely on their body. Hoods are made of soft or hard heather, latex, silk scarves or wooden boxes. The sensations, smell and sound effects obviously differ. Some opt for pin holes that allow restricted vision. Others are specifically designed for oral sex and the only opening is over the nose and mouth. The wearing of leather costumes is not limited to the use of victims. Frightening effects are also created by only the dominator wearing a hood or mask. These have both eye and mouth openings. CAUTION: Latex Hoods with only a few holes under the nostrils have been known to accidentally slide around and cut off the person's oxygen supply so you must be extra careful when placing a hood on your partner and always make sure they can breath. ImpalingCriminals were often executed by being sat on the sharp point of a stake. Their weight drove the stake up into their torso, causing a slow death. Ancient Assyrians developed this into a form of torture where the victim could live a day or more before expiring. Impalement has since evolved to include any penetration of the body that restricts a person's ability to move. RopesRopes are often used for bondage. They offer a technical challenge to the dominator and are versatile in their application and effect. Rope is inexpensive and can be purchased from any hardware store. People often use silk curtain sashes, soft nylon rope or the magicians' rope found in magic shops. Rough ropes are used for those who are into punishment or cowboy scenes. Erotic rope play is done by pulling a long rope very slowly across the genitals and breast or wrapping it between the fingers and toes. The rope essentially takes the place of caressing hands. Once the person has used all the rope, the victim is then slowly released in the same manner. The whole process may take an hour or longer. Thorough planning of a scene is done ahead of time. If the victim wants to be spanked or have their partner play with their genitals that make sure that hands and rope do not obstruct the area. Arms are bound separate from the body to facilitate occasional movement or relocation which prevents much discomfort as time passes. Bondage rope is washed after use if a person has more than one partner. It is usually put in a pillow case or laundry bag to prevent tangling and dried at the highest temperature to kill bacteria. CAUTION: Knots are not placed on areas where veins or arteries come close to the surface. Pressure on the lower rib cage is also dangerous. The ankles and knees may need additional padding and are not bound together unless the person is lying down, sitting or supported by a harnesses while standing. There are many other safety precautions which should be adhered to when using bondage rope. The victim is placed in a comfortable position, unless the game dictates otherwise. The diameter of rope is 1/4-1/2" thick. It is always applied doubled or in tows, which decreases the risk of cutting off circulation because it broadens the area of pressure. The correct pressure for rope is discernable by a slight indentation in the skin. A person's body swells during the application of rope and takes about five minutes to return to normal. The rope can slip out of position after this time and can be dangerous if it ends up around a partner's neck or another area that could cut off circulation (warmth) comparing the colour of the fingers with what they looked like before the bondage session began. The dominator also requests that the partner move their hands and toes to check for numbness because many people don't notice it until they move. You should always keep a pair of bandage scissors is always kept near to cut a person loose if their circulation is cut off or if they use the safe word. A partner never leaves a room while the victim is in bondage. ShacklesShackles are restraints made of metal strips that cuff the ankles, neck, or wrists. They have a loop that allows the attachment of chain or locking mechanism. Shackles are popular in authentic medieval dungeon scenes but are uncomfortable and can cause injury if not padded for a fantasy scene. The strong psychological impact of shackles overrides the concern for comfort for many who use them.
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