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The Dungeon Master's twin brother must defend the
honor of the castle by his sword. As the fight with the Black Knight
proceeds, the real action is down in the dungeon. A servant slave is
in the hanging stocks and is being punished for spilling soup.
EXPLANATION OF TERMS
Bondage refers to the act of restricting
the movement of a person. Bondage can be physical or symbolic and
may involve many different methods. Primitive cultures used bondage
on stolen brides to prevent their escape. This form of restraint
eventually evolved into symbolic bindings around the waist, legs,
and wrists and according to some, the finger. The tradition of
carrying the bride across the threshold also comes from this custom.
There was a strange twist to sex and bondage during the 19th Century
when parents were encouraged to bind the hands of their sons behind
their backs to prevent them from masturbating. Adult men were not
exempt and were often expected to have the same thing done to them
Today television programs are full of
abduction and bondage scenes. Children play cowboys and Indians
using rope bondage. And in 1989 over 40% of patients in American
nursing homes were put into restraints. Regardless of the popularity
of bondage, it is not socially acceptable for adults to utilize it
for sex play.
The benefits individuals receive from
bondage vary. Simple solitary bondage is like meditation for many
practitioners. The brain seems to release more alpha waves, causing
a floating or hypnotic state similar to when one drives on a highway
late at night.
Other people prefer to pull against the
restraints, building a rush of adrenalin and euphoria. Men who are
much stronger than their partner, but still want a passionate
reciprocal exchange of physical power, benefit from partial bondage.
This handicaps the man so that the woman appears to have equivalent
or superior physical strength. Some build up immense confidence and
self esteem by being able to work their way loose from the
restraints. Many find thatbondage
relieves then of always having to
sexually perform. This allows them to relax and not feel guilty
about enjoying the sensations their partner is creating.
Bondage often serves as simple support.
Secure and comfortable bondage allows the person acting as the
victim, to relax completely, without worrying about balance or other
practical distractions. Imaginative sexual positions may move from
ridiculously awkward to fun with such support.
A major effect of bondage, when used
during sex, is the release of normal inhibitions. A prisoner or
victim does not feel as personally responsible when obeying
commands, especially ones they have fantasized about but didn't have
the courage to try. The person performing the bondage experiences a
similar release of inhibition due to the tremendous increase in
feelings of personal power. However, sexual etiquette requires for
the dominating partner not to use the situation to exclusively
fulfil their own fantasies, particularly ones that their partner,
namely the victim, doesn't find arousing.
Bondage scenes are negotiated ahead of
time which enables both people to determine what type of scene they
want to act out and what paraphernalia might be needed. A safe word
guarantees that sexual limits of the partner playing the victim will
be expanded but not violated. The safe word is also a command to end
the game, whether it is because the victim feels discomfort, boredom
or their limit has been reached. Regardless of why the safe word was
used, it is the responsibility of the perpetrator to get them out of
bondage within a few seconds.
Bondage also creates trust and
appreciation for the perpetrator. Those bound are for the first time
not able to reciprocate acts of affection and stimulation received
from the partner. They become fully aware of the role of their
partner plays in expressing affection and controlling sexual
arousal. Many victims become extremely grateful and submissive upon
finally being released.
Bondage , like other sex games, will
generally not produce an erotic effect unless one is sexually
attracted to their partner or has an overpowering lust for bondage,
in which case the partner is of lesser importance. In addition, most
safety conscious people do not play with people they don't know.
Bondage, unlike other types of sex, may
require a long period of time, up ton 48 hours. This necessitates
the partner being diverse and having the physical and mental stamina
required to keep the game intense, focused and progressive. The
perpetrator is often more exhausted than the victim at the end of
the bondage session. CAUTION: Bondage, like mountain climbing,
skydiving, body building and car racing can be dangerous if the
proper precautions are not taken. People who practice bondage read
about the safety of new equipment or positions they can use on their
partners. Positions are selected according to the length of time in
which the partners have to play. Many positions seen in magazines
are extremely uncomfortable and would not work for more than a few
minutes. Pulling a person's arm upward while they are bound behind
their back (strapado torture position) can easily dislocate a
shoulder. A person is never left unattended while bound.
Furthermore, the person who is bound is constantly monitored for
breathing, circulation, skin tone and temperature of the fingers and
toes. Nothing is put near the neck except properly fitted collars.
Ropes, blindfolds, hoods, or other restraints can slip out of their
original position and cause suffocation. The restrictive cuffs or
ropes match on each side of the body in order to produce the proper
sensations. Those learning bondage add additional paraphernalia
slowly, avoiding gags, latex hoods, impaling, lacing and
crucifixion.
The following are specific examples of
common bondage play.
Spreader Bars
Spreader bars are used in conjunction with
leather cuffs and sometimes chains. They are designed to alleviate
the need of anchoring a person to a chair or bed. A leg or knee
spreader also keeps the victim from closing their legs to protect or
hide their genitals. This type of vulnerability is particularly
exciting for women who enjoy being exhibited. Spreader bars, as
opposed to tying someone to the bed posts, allow the legs to be
raised into different positions and for the person to easily be
flipped over on their stomach.
Bondage Cage
Cages are used to imprison partners
without the need of additional restraints. Cages are made to
resemble wire chicken coops, coffins or wooden boxes. The type of
cage one selects is determined by the feelings one wants to produce.
If the fantasy involves an interrogation of a prisoner, bars are
often used. If the slave is impersonating a pet, the chicken wire
pen or kennel sets the proper mood. Necrophilia's and vampires
prefer coffins. Wooden boxes with holes for ventilation are
versatile in most cases and claustrophiles (people who are aroused
by being trapped in small areas) enjoy being placed in them.
Cages may or may not be large enough to
permit the slave to stand or lay fully stretched out. The size of
the cage determines how long a person is left inside. Cages are used
as beds, for punishment, or during a recess in S/M play. Some
perpetrators have anchored male prisoners wearing Prince Albert
penis rings (metal rings that pierces the urethra and exits near the
fraenulum) to the cage bars by wrapping his penis around a bar and
fastening the Prince Albert to a cock ring at the base end of his
penis.
People practicing long term bondage that need to
leave the house for a couple of hours often leave their partner in a
cage. This is considered safe; on the assumption that the chances of
the house catching fire and the perpetrator getting into a car
accident are accident slim.
Bondage Chains
Chains are used for suspension or
attaching one restraint to another. They are also used for
ornamentation or to connect various ring piercings on the body.
Chains, because they rattle and feel cool, add tactile and auditory
sensations to the bondage scene.
Chains are preferred by some for
suspension because they are heavy duty and various items can be hung
from the links. A 3" or 4" panic snap is added to provide for
immediate release. The disadvantage to using chains is their weight
and bulk if people take sex toys with them on a trip.
Bondage Collars
Collars can are worn by slaves and by the
perpetrators. They act as a visible and physical reminder of their
submissive state. The collar is often black leather with a buckle
and some include chrome studs as decoration. It is either worn alone
or with a leash attached to a 'D' ring. Others use an ordinary
necklace with some type of charm or emblem to signify their
commitment. Pet slaves sometimes have personalized dog tags attached
to their collar.
Wrist restraints Wrist restraints are
occasionally attached by a chain to the "D" ring with the arms in
front of the body or to the sides. This is dangerous if done from
the back because it can cause self-strangulation.
Crucifixion
Crucifixion consists of suspending a
person by the wrists and ankles from a stake. It was originally done
by Phoenicians, Assyrians, Egyptians, Persians and Romans as a
method of execution. Nailing the wrists and feet usually meant a
fast death from blood loss while using ropes meant that the person
would live several hours before suffocating. Death could take
several days if their weight was supported by something. The
Carthaginians used crucifixion as a form as a form of ritual
sacrifice. Malcus, in order to ensure himself victory in battle,
dressed his son, had a crown placed on his head and then crucified
him as a sacrifice to the god Baal. Once dead, the victim was
usually burned with the cross. The Romans developed four more types
of crucifixes: the Y, X, T and H. The latter involved hanging a
person horizontally by one leg and one arm.
Leather cuffs are preferred for most, but
people also wrap their ankles and wrists with ropes using Ace
bandages to give some protection underneath the binding. The roped
binding is to be secure but not too tight.
A few people find crucifixion games
arousing and powerful because of its religious association with pain
and sacrifice. CAUTION: There is a danger that setting the
restraints too loosely may cause permanent crushed nerve damage.
Constant monitoring of the extremities for circulation is done by
all who play with restraints.
Some choose to have an orgasm during
suspension. However, the body tolerates more pain before orgasm than
afterward and they risk experiencing increased pain.
Positions that require one's arm to be
separate and support their weight will put stress on the lungs and
can cause suffocation. The least painful position is one where both
hands are hung together above the head and the ankles are spread but
still have support. This can be tolerated by some for as long as
10-15 minutes, depending on the person, their weight, and the type
of bondage.
Cuffs
Leather cuffs are 2-3" wide leather strips
that fit around the wrists or ankles. They have buckles, latches or
padlocks and may be lined with fur for comfort. Cuffs are simpler to
use, more restrictive than rope, and can be removed faster. Chains,
leather straps, or spreader bars are sometimes used to attach cuffs
to each other.
Encasement
Encasement is a type of bondage that also
involves sensory deprivation. The Sadhus of India used this method
as one way of preventing orgasms while trying to achieve an altered
state of consciousness. It is also used as a type of chastity
device.
Encasements of heads were used in the form
of hideous helmets or metal masks during the middle Ages as a form
of humiliation. This type of torture was portrayed in the movie "Man
in the Iron Mask" and if this had a similar effect on the head as it
does the penis, we can only imagine the psychological torment it
could cause.
A man usually encases his penis in a metal
ball or other material that will not come into constant contact with
the penis. Both of these have a small hole for the urine to pass.
Encasements make it impossible for the person to achieve an orgasm
and there is no sensation in the penis while encased. However, after
several days have passed and the ball is removed the penis becomes
extremely sensitive to touch.
Gags
Gags are used to render a person
speechless, which has a great psychological impact. Some victims
prefer gags because they muffle their screams. Those using gags
establish an alternative signal to replace the safe word. Some have
their partner hold a marble and drop it if they want the game to
end.
There are many types of gags. They include
bridles, ball gags, mouth covers, muzzles, adhesive tape, stuffers,
and dildos and bar gags.
Ball gags are effective and safe as long
as they are anchored or strung onto a strap that is wide enough to
be comfortable. Penis or dildo gags are available with the penis
mounted on the inside of the mouth, the outside or both. Penis gags
are used for humiliation, sex, and punishment and teasing. People
strap on the gag with the dildo that protrudes outward and then
mount it. They also have the option of sitting on the partner's gag
and sucking on their genitals. Head harnesses are available in Japan
with a high-heel shoe attached to the front so that the toe
penetrates the mouth.
Muzzles or head harnesses are used by
many because they are comfortable, generally anchor the jaw, permit
breathing and do not chafe the lips. The person is not rendered
completely speechless but the sound is muffled. CAUTION: There is a
risk of the person not being able to breathe adequately through
their nose, gagging on saliva, damaging their teeth on hard objects
put in their mouth, swallowing or choking on vomit or stuffings that
can be bitten off or have come loose from the mouthpiece, or the
mouth becoming uncomfortably dry. Many only use gags for two minutes
at a time.
Handcuffs
Handcuffs are adjustable and when applied
correctly it is impossible for the victim to escape. They are easy
to apply and are a convenient form of restraint for those wanting to
move their partner to another location.
Generally mitts, socks or boots are used
to protect against the discomfort caused by the metal pressing
against the skin. Good quality handcuffs with built-in safety locks
that keep them from tightening after being locked are used in the S
&M community. Those who have more than one set usually have them all
keyed the same and keep extra keys readily available during bondage
play as a safety precaution. Handcuffs are applied so that the key
hole faces away from the body, making them more accessible and
easier to remove. CAUTION: For safety, handcuffs are carried closed.
This guarantees that the key is available before play begins and
padding (gloves or Ace bandage) is used on the wrists to protect
them from abrasion.
Body harnesses are used for decorative
attire, suspension and to anchor onto other restraints. Decorative
harnesses are made of rope in bondage scenes and of
leather costumes.
Harnesses used most for suspension are
parachute harnesses which are available for purchase in many Army
Navy surplus stores.
Hoods
Hoods are used to depersonalize a partner.
This anonymity gives the dominator more power, both parties fewer
inhibitions and focuses the victim's sensations entirely on their
body.
Hoods are made of soft or hard heather,
latex, silk scarves or wooden boxes. The sensations, smell and sound
effects obviously differ. Some opt for pin holes that allow
restricted vision. Others are specifically designed for oral sex and
the only opening is over the nose and mouth.
The wearing of
leather costumes is not limited to the use of victims.
Frightening effects are also created by only the dominator wearing a
hood or mask. These have both eye and mouth openings. CAUTION:
Latex Hoods with only a few holes under
the nostrils have been known to accidentally slide around and cut
off the person's oxygen supply so you must be extra careful when
placing a hood on your partner and always make sure they can breath.
Impaling
Criminals were often executed by being sat
on the sharp point of a stake. Their weight drove the stake up into
their torso, causing a slow death. Ancient Assyrians developed this
into a form of torture where the victim could live a day or more
before expiring. Impalement has since evolved to include any
penetration of the body that restricts a person's ability to move.
Ropes
Ropes are often used for bondage. They
offer a technical challenge to the dominator and are versatile in
their application and effect. Rope is inexpensive and can be
purchased from any hardware store. People often use silk curtain
sashes, soft nylon rope or the magicians' rope found in magic shops.
Rough ropes are used for those who are into punishment or cowboy
scenes.
Erotic rope play is done by pulling a long
rope very slowly across the genitals and breast or wrapping it
between the fingers and toes. The rope essentially takes the place
of caressing hands. Once the person has used all the rope, the
victim is then slowly released in the same manner. The whole process
may take an hour or longer.
Thorough planning of a scene is done ahead
of time. If the victim wants to be spanked or have their partner
play with their genitals that make sure that hands and rope do not
obstruct the area. Arms are bound separate from the body to
facilitate occasional movement or relocation which prevents much
discomfort as time passes.
Bondage rope is washed after use if a
person has more than one partner. It is usually put in a pillow case
or laundry bag to prevent tangling and dried at the highest
temperature to kill bacteria. CAUTION: Knots are not placed on areas
where veins or arteries come close to the surface. Pressure on the
lower rib cage is also dangerous. The ankles and knees may need
additional padding and are not bound together unless the person is
lying down, sitting or supported by a harnesses while standing.
There are many other safety precautions
which should be adhered to when using bondage rope. The victim is
placed in a comfortable position, unless the game dictates
otherwise. The diameter of rope is 1/4-1/2" thick. It is always
applied doubled or in tows, which decreases the risk of cutting off
circulation because it broadens the area of pressure. The correct
pressure for rope is discernable by a slight indentation in the
skin. A person's body swells during the application of rope and
takes about five minutes to return to normal. The rope can slip out
of position after this time and can be dangerous if it ends up
around a partner's neck or another area that could cut off
circulation (warmth) comparing the colour of the fingers with what
they looked like before the bondage session began. The dominator
also requests that the partner move their hands and toes to check
for numbness because many people don't notice it until they move.
You should always keep a pair of bandage scissors is always kept
near to cut a person loose if their circulation is cut off or if
they use the safe word. A partner never leaves a room while the
victim is in bondage.
Shackles
Shackles are restraints made of metal
strips that cuff the ankles, neck, or wrists. They have a loop that
allows the attachment of chain or locking mechanism. Shackles are
popular in authentic medieval dungeon scenes but are uncomfortable
and can cause injury if not padded for a fantasy scene. The strong
psychological impact of shackles overrides the concern for comfort
for many who use them.
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